Roxane Gay in her book creates revolution through raw vulnerability. And most women know this, that we are supposed to disappear, but it’s something that needs to be said, loudly, over and over again, so that we can resist surrendering to what is expected of us.”Īlso read: Reflections On Being A Fat Woman: My Body As The Site Of Moral Panic
We should be seen and not heard, and if we are seen, we should be pleasing to men, acceptable to society. “This is what most girls are taught – that we should be slender and small. If you identify with an ideology based on the visibility of women, how do you deal with consequences of breaking these patriarchal expectations? This is what Roxane Gay explores in her book Hunger: A Memoir of My Body We are supposed to be thin but not too thin, polite but not boring, talkative yet not too talkative, visible yet not more visible than men.
Our society poses numerous expectation on women, one of them being the constant modification of our physical bodies in order to match up to unattainable beauty standards.
